August 22, 2012

A recap ... 40 has come and gone

I'm officially 40.   I have been for 43 days now.   And not surprisingly,  I lost my motivation somewhere along the way here.

Am I proud of myself ?  Heck no !  I'm disappointed as hell in myself.  40 didn't turn out to be the amazing physical health / weight-loss motivator that I had hoped it would be.

What did I gain on my way (weigh ?)  to 40 ?  Well,  other than the pounds and inches that I worked so hard to lose in the first place,  I gained something much more positive and substantial.

It may sound corny,  but in the last year I gained the love of my life,  the true partner I had been yearning for,  the "ONE",  who loves me for me,  not for what I look like, not for what size I wear, not for anything else but ME.

And that gives me hope.

In the coming months we plan to train for an amazing event to take us around Lake Ontario in 7 days next summer.   BY BICYCLE.
Inspired by my Sweetie's participation in this years' Ride To Conquer Cancer ,  I set out to find something for us both to take part in for the coming year.

The Rotary Tour du Lac  is a 7 day bike ride starting in St. Catharines that circumnavigates Lake Ontario in 7 days, covering approximately 940kms. The event fund raises for our local hospital system's Cardiac Care Unit, which seems a worthwhile cause considering I'm not getting any younger and neither is my ticker.

I've always been good at coming up with grandiose ideas. But clearly follow-through is not my thing so much.
Lucky for me I've got my sweetie on board.   If he can't motivate me,  I dare say no-one can.

He has an incredible story himself ,  that of a  Fat Guy turned Triathlete .  With his guidance, love, support, and gentle prodding  I plan on learning to cycle so that we can complete this event together.

I don't expect that it will be easy.  I don't expect for it to be all sunshine and roses.
But I do have the strong desire to find something  that gives me sustainability and joy.  And follow through.

It's going to be a hell of a ride !












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